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After finding out about betrayal, focus first on safety, accurate information, basic care, and support. You don’t need to decide the future of the relationship today. Unless safety, health,...

Your wife found out. And now every word out of your mouth sounds like another lie to her, even when it isn’t. In my experience, when a man keeps lying about cheating, it’s usually because...

Can a cheater actually stop? Yes, some do. In my program, the men who get fully honest, first with themselves and then with their partner, and who build real structure around that honesty, are the...

You got caught. Now you’re lying awake asking yourself the question underneath every other question: what kind of man does this? I think about this all the time, because almost every client who...

You’ve been asking yourself this question at 2 a.m. for a while now. Here’s the direct answer: no, not every man who cheats is a sex addict. Some men cheat once, feel sick about it, and...